~~ "She has so many aliases, you'd think she was a spy!" ~~

Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Waiting for the third shoe to drop...

Words Written: ~750 in the airport, more to come

Ugh. I didn’t sleep well, got to the airport late, and managed to leave my credit card in the check-in machine—and this time, when I went back, it was gone. (You never get a reminder to remove your card nor does the machine spit it out for you at the end. And when you’re juggling your new boarding passes and your carry-on and you have to haul your suitcase back off the scale and drag it across the airport to the security screeners…) I miss Ken. It’s a full flight. (I offered to give up my seat, but they didn’t want me, because of the difficulty of ensuring I made my connecting flight. Since my massage therapist canceled on me tonight due to an emergency, I really had given up caring just how long I sat at LAX. And I could’ve really used that free flight. Oh well.)

But I just spent about an hour and a half writing up my Styxfest wrap-up report, which is overdue anyway. I’ve got three hours at LAX, so I’ll get some lunch, hang out next to the one working outlet in the 80s gate area, and get some writing done.

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And because my day apparently could get more thrilling, I arrived home to discover that my car had been towed. (This would be my old car, which had been parked in front of my house for the nearly three years that we’ve lived here. My new car is in the shop getting that dent repaired. Apparently there’s a law here that you can’t park on the street for more than three days. Apparently it goes into effect after two years and nine months, the day you’re getting home from a vacation. That’s right, they towed it this morning. My heartfelt thanks to our tenant and the guy across the street, both of whom tried to reason with the cop. So anyway, that’s approximately $200 I owe to the police, and who knows how much the towing place will charge. Hopefully it’s not too much, because I had to cancel my damn credit card.)

Is it too early to start drinking?

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Currently Reading: Perdido Street Station, China Miéville
Lately Listened To: An Ancient Muse, Loreena McKennitt
Recently Watched: the empty space where my goddamned car should be

Monday, June 18, 2007

Oregone and back again

So, how’re ya’ll doing? You never comment anymore. Are you still reading? Or have I gotten so sporadic and/or boring that you’ve wandered off to greener pastures? Do I need some sheep to fertilize the place (and provide fleeces for my spinning friends)?

Anyway. I’m in Oregon having a marvelous time. (If I manage to post this before I get home, don’t break into my house and scare the kitties, okay? Besides, Eostre’s an attack cat—don’t be fooled by her missing leg—because she will shed on you to death.) I arrived Thursday afternoon, and Ken and I eventually took a walk down to an area of frou-frou shops and restaurants because there was a Swagath, which is owned by the same people who run Swagat in Beaverton, which we always go to with Lev and Gayle because the food is awesome. This place was slightly less awesome, but still fantastic. I adore their shrimp biryani. On the way back we stopped in a market Ken had been meaning to check out, and it was also fantastic. We picked up a bunch of organic frozen meals, and found—wait for it—Green & Black’s dark chocolate ice cream. (For the non-chocolate snobs reading, Green & Black’s is a British chocolate, and my snobby chocolate of choice. Better than Ghirardelli, yes. Many flavors, including ones we found at the market that we didn’t even know existed. Espresso! Mint! Caramel!) Alas, we later discovered that it had semi-melted as some point and refrozen with water crystals in it, so while the flavor was awesome, the texture was saddening. Eventually we drilled down to find an inner core that was still pristine. How does it compare to Godiva Belgian chocolate ice cream? I’d say the Godiva has a darker taste, but the G&B has a creamier taste.

Friday we mostly refinanced the house on the phone (I heart USAA) and then hopped on the bike for the trip south to Grants Pass to meet up with a bunch of other BMW riders for the annual West Coast Rendezvous.

The highlight of WCR this year was the four-hour jet boat tour down the Rogue River, complete with champagne brunch. The highlight of that, for me, anyway, was seeing a bald eagle in the wild for the first time. (I got a picture, but it’s mostly of a bird up in the sky, so don’t get too excited. At any rate, I’ll try to post pictures after I get home. Not that I’ve had the chance to post pictures of the Shaw/Blades shows from April or Styxfest last month…) Gorgeous thing. There were also ospreys, turkey vultures, and I swear a fourth type of raptor that our guide (the fabulous and hilarious Donny) didn’t identify. Alas, we saw no otters, although we were assured they were there. We also saw places where they filmed quite a few movies, including The River Wild. Breathtaking scenery the entire time, and they were generous with the champagne; can’t ask for much more than that.

Ken and I had a lazy afternoon, napping and lounging and wandering around antique shops in town, after which we went to the banquet, where I had an amazing crab-stuffed chicken mornay and won Harry & David’s truffles. We came home yesterday via Crater Lake, which I’d never been to before. I was somehow unprepared for the elevation and the snow. Stunningly beautiful. How can water be that blue, and that still? We had lunch at the lodge, then took a bunch of windy twisty roads through amazing woods on our way home, stopping for pizza on the way. (Note to Phaedra and Loren: at Pietro’s!) That ride was longer than was comfortable for me on Ken’s new bike, so I took a hot shower, downed some Ibuprofen, ate the above-mentioned ice cream, and curled up with my beloved and a glass of wine.

Today I’ve been cleaning up a little e-mail, doing laundry, petting the kitties, drinking too much tea, etc., while Ken’s at work. I need to get a little writing done as well, before he gets back. We’d hoped to have dinner with Lev and Gayle, but because I was a lame-ass and didn’t call them until today, they’d already made plans. I will remember to contact them before I come up here next time, dammit. So perhaps we’ll go back to Swagath tonight, because we haven’t found a good Indian restaurant in Ventura County and I’m already pining for shrimp biryani and garlic naan again.

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Currently Reading: Ghost of a Chance, Yasmine Galenorn (a cozy mystery about a witch who runs a china shop in a small Washington town); All U Can Eat, Emma Holly (just finished)
Lately Listened To: the gentle hum of the dryer; Lullagoodbye, Taylor Mills
Recently Watched: You, Me, and Dupree

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

The dark lords of rock

Lawrence namechecks Styxfest—and because it all is about me…

“Also, let me acknowledge the Styxfest at Casino Rama and all the good that it shall bring about. Well done... (Even the dark lords of rock are impressed).”

We’ve impressed the dark lords of rock. My job here is done.

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Rejection from Luna Books for Waking the Witch—but a full-page letter discussing what she liked (loved the character! would love to see another story with that character!) and didn’t like (didn’t think the idea was fresh and original enough). Most importantly, “I’d be interested in seeing other ideas you have in proposal form.”

Which makes me wonder if I should pause in the novel I’m struggling with (“beating my head bloody against the wall” comes close to describing the process) and do the redraft of An Ever-Turning Wheel

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Worked out today. Just elliptical and the back machine and some ab work. But I’ve messed up my back something fierce (feels like the sacrum on both sides), and that does not bode well for getting on a plane to Oregon tomorrow. Sigh.

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Also worked on my skirt for Pirate Tourney. Wicked Red will have a whole new outfit when she comes ashore in July. And she’s going to be hot, baybee.

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Be the First on Your Block!

To celebrate the UK release of A Little Night Music, we’re having a couple of contests!

For UK residents: Prove to me that you’ve bought the book! Proof can be a scan of the receipt, a picture of you with the book somewhere other than the bookstore, or something obvious like that. Be the first person to e-mail me with that proof at cyvarwydd at mac dot com, and you’ll win a prize!

For US residents: Prove to me that you couldn’t wait for the US release and you bought the book from the UK! Proof can be your amazon.co.uk receipt, the shipping label from someone who sent it to you, etc. Be the first person to e-mail me with that proof at cyvarwydd at mac dot com, and you’ll win a prize!

For residents of all other countries: Um, I don’t know what distribution is like for you… But if you’re the first person on your country to prove to me that you’ve bought the book (send an e-mail to cyvarwydd at mac dot com, you’ll win a prize, too!

Comp copies and shared copies don’t count. To win a prize, you’ve gotta pay.

(I have no idea what the prizes will be. Suggestions welcome—what do ya’ll want? You can’t have the wrist cuff, sorry.)

Contest ends July 15, 2007, unless all winners have checked in earlier. Winners will be announced at www.cyvarwydd.com.

Monday, June 11, 2007

I believe...

Back in April, when I went to the Shaw/Blades shows, my friend Thom from Utah (whom I'd never met until then, 'though I'd known him online through Styx fandom for years and years) wore a fabulous t-shirt that I decided I must own. It listed a bunch of geeky "I believe" statements, almost all of which I backed wholeheartedly.

So I ordered the shirt from Café Press. When it arrived, I was sad to see that some of the words bled into the design to such a degree as to be unreadable. While I was sure I'd been able to read Thom's shirt in its entirety, Café Press said the flaw was due to the low quality of the image intially given to them. They agreed to refund my money, and even said I could keep the shirt I'd purchased. Kudos to Café Press.

In an effort to not forget what the shirt says, I provide the text here for your amusement. Please don't copy it without tracking down the original source, which is DJ Rik Emerson in the Portland, OR, area. (Check out Café Press for details.)

So read on, and say with me, hallelujah.

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I believe that Han shot first. I believe that Ally Sheedy was hotter before Molly Ringwald cleaned her up. I believe in miniatures, models, claymation, and not revealing the shark until you absolutely have to. I believe that George Lucas, for better or for worse, changed the way we see the world, ourselves, and each other. And I believe that we will someday reach those stars that he himself made visible. I believe that George Lucas is also a narrow-minded, money-grubbing pig-headed slave to the now, who oughtta be locked away from his own creations, lest he do them further harm. I believe that Jean-Luc Picard is the better Starship Captain, but I also believe that James Tiberius Kirk is infinitely more cool. I believe that children standing in line to buy a book at midnight is fantastic; I believe that reading makes you smart—it’s schools that make you dumb. I believe that any episode of Futurama is better than any program featuring a precocious teenager who’s wise beyond their years. I also believe Buffy the Vampire Slayer to be the sole exception that proves this rule. I believe that comic books are an art form, and will someday be recognized as such. I believe that good shows die too young; and crap shows last too long. I believe that boycotts, petitions, and sending the President of Fox lots of candy will never save a program…only heads on spikes will ever do that trick. I believe that Eddie Izzard is the funniest man alive, and I don’t give a good goddamn whether you’ve ever heard of him or not—it’s still true. I believe that a girl who likes movies about zombies is hotter than whoever’s on the cover of Maxim this month. I believe that Beloch ate that fly, and I swear to God that I heard Luke call Leia “Carrie,” and I believe that Samwise Gamgee never quite got the credit he really deserved. I believe in magic, I believe in dreams, I believe in the power of music, movies, and the untold worlds inside an everyday library card. And I do not believe that geeks will inherit the earth; I believe that we already have.

Wednesday, June 06, 2007

Wraith is here!


Woohoo! Today is the release date of debut book from my extraordinarily talented friend Phaedra (aka the Other Half of my Brain)!

If you like action-packed urban fantasy with a kickass, smartass heroine, Wraith is absolutely for you. I was lucky enough to be a first reader on this book, and I can’t wait to get the final copy in my hands and read it again!

Go forth! Buy! Prepare to have your socks knocked off!

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Be-Juned

Egads, halfway through the first week of June already. How did that happen?

So I sent out a bunch of stories Sunday (nine, I believe), and ASIM has already passed “What Price Beauty?” up to the second round. They’ve done that with about five of my stories so far. Still haven’t cracked the final barrier, but it’s always a nice reminder that my work doesn’t automatically suck.

Some other writing stats from May and early June:

  • Sale! A reprint of “All About the Ratings” will appear in the Mammoth Book of Best New Erotica.
  • Follow-up on a previous sale—it was an especially lovely acceptance: “Just a quick note to tell you that, damn, ‘The Queen of Christmas’ is an excellent story.”
  • Another agent pass on Waking the Witch; nice things to say about my writing, but didn’t click with the character.
  • Best Lesbian Love Stories: Summer Fling accepted “In Flight,” a story inspired by the day-long course I took at the raptor center in Wales, learning to fly and care for hawks and falcons and owls, oh my!
  • An anthology formerly entitled In the Flesh has provisionally accepted my story “Party Favor.” (The publisher gets final right of refusal.)
  • A total of five (three of my own, one Sarah Dale, and one Sophie Mouette) rejections from this year’sBest Women’s Erotica.
  • Two rejections from Best American Erotica.
  • Rejection from The Town Drunk for “Matchmaker.”

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I finally registered my new car today! It took only two and a half months… (Okay, I had all the paperwork to register it right before Styxfest, but it was so not a priority then.) I still haven’t decided on what my vanity plates should say (everything I’ve wanted so far has been taken, big surprise in CA, and anything I’ve tried to translate into Welsh has been far too long to fit on the plate!), so I got regular ones for now. Suggestions are always welcome!

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Currently Reading: Hell’s Belles, Jackie Kessler
Lately Listened To: Celtic Woman
Recently Watched: The Riches, Northern Exposure

Monday, June 04, 2007

I'm in the newspaper!

My buddy Lohr interviewed me for the Plattsburgh Press-Republican when I was in NY recently, and the article came out today! You can read it online here.

Not the world's greatest picture of me, and Sarah doesn't live in Vermont, but how cool is this? I'm in the newspaper!

Surely world domination can't be far behind...

Monday, May 28, 2007

Aftermath...

Yeargh. I haven’t had a full night’s sleep for about a week. You’d think now that Styxfest is over, I’d be fine, but nooooo… We got to my parents’ Sunday evening (drove 7 hours from Toronto), and were ready for bed before my parents were—and they pretty much crash at 9 p.m. I stayed up ‘til about 9:45 phutzing with my concert notes for Sarah, and then I dropped off immediately…only to wake up again after midnight. I curled up in the living room with the laptop and a book, and after two glasses of wine, staggered back to bed at 2 a.m., only to find Ken awake. Sometime after that, I tossed and turned for a while, and in total, never felt like I got a full rest. Now it’s 10 p.m. Monday night, and I’m tired-ish, but I don’t know if I’ll be able to sleep. We’ll see.

I arrived in Toronto on schedule, had no problem at Immigration, and then was reunited with my beloved! We collected my luggage and the rental car, and drove around until we decided on a restaurant for dinner (oddly enough, Boston Pizzaria). Then it was a drive through the darkness to the wilds of Orillia to the Days Inn, across the street from Casino Rama. We arrived on the heels of the rest of the staff, all of whom had driven from Buffalo in various vehicles.

Staff breakfast was the next morning, and then we all loaded up with stuff and went across the street to Casino Rama, where we laminated passes and stuffed swag bags and generally flailed about trying to get organized by the time registration opened. I’d say we were semi-successful. Attendance that day was small, which we kind of expected since it would be a travel day for some people, so it was mostly hanging out, looking at silent auction items, eating, etc. The concert that night was, as always, awesome, with the additions of “Suite Madame Blue” and “A Criminal Mind” since we were in Canada, and “Love in the Midnight,” which made just about every female Tommy fan wet her pants. I have to admit, it is an awfully sexy song.

Friday was day two of Styxfest, with a talk by the band’s manager and a performance by the Styx tribute band What Not To Do To Your Roboto, who brought the house down. We held the first half of the live auction, and the advance copy of A Little Night Music went for $69! (Thanks to all my fabulous friends who bid on it!) Also, very importantly, the promised-but-until-now-unreceived leather wrist cuff of Lawrence’s arrived for the next day’s auction. We knew this would be a big ticket item, a fight to the death between our friend Lin (who was incredibly smart enough to ask Lawrence months ago if he’d donate it) and Ken (who’d decided that, by all that’s holy, I deserved that wrist cuff. It is in A Little Night Music, after all.)

The concert that night was even better, thanks to a blow-everyone’s-socks-off performance of “Midnight Ride.” For one thing, Styx hasn’t performed it live in probably 20 years or more. For another, it’s a smoking song. For another, JY essentially said they were pulling out old songs because they knew there was a fan convention going on and they wanted to do different stuff for us. And finally, Lawrence strapped on a Stratocaster and proceeded to rock out, causing all the Gowan fans to do what the Tommy fans had done the previous night, in spades. [fans self, swooning at the memory] Ken recorded video of the whole thing, and also got a still shot, which he said was the real cover of the book. Pretty damn close.

Afterwards, we wandered off to the bar in search of food and alcohol, hung out with various crew members…and I was able to give Ricky his copy of A Little Night Music and talk to him for a while. Have I mentioned that the book is dedicated to “the boys in the band,” with all their first names listed? He seemed quite impressed, and hugged me, then looked at the cover and said, “This looks like it’s steamy.” Yup. He was happy because he said he needed something new to read. Eep! He also gave me his extra beer. I’m not much of a beer drinker, but apparently I’m enough of a geeky fangirl to drink a beer that’s handed to me by a band member.

Then there was Saturday. Oh, Saturday, a highlight of my short, sweet life. Chuck did a Q&A and booksigning, and I was able to give him his copy of our book. He was also happy to have something to read…

The auction. I can’t bring myself to say just how much Ken spent on that wrist cuff, but I can say it was incredibly amazing and incredibly stupid in equal measures, and made us celebrities in our own right. I cried. Then fifty thousand people took pictures of him buckling it on me. (That’s only a slight exaggeration, but it was like a garter at a wedding.) I have to give Lin the credit she deserves, for she is the epitome of grace and friendship—she was the first person to hug me, despite how much she wanted that wrist cuff for herself. She truly does rock.

While we were waiting at the stage for the concert to begin, the assistant tour manager found us and, yes, we were off to backstage to be personally thanked for how much money we gave to charity that day. (In total, Styxfest raised $17,000 for four charities, and the cuff was a significant portion of that. Tani, Ken, and I agreed that we’d put the wrist cuff money directly to one of the charities, a New Orleans one that’s bringing musicians displaced by Hurricane Katrina back to NO. It was the charity that the band requested, and being able to tell them that was a great moment.) Lawrence gave Ken one of his ties (and showed us a copy of a promo band photo that had him wearing it), and I was able to give him and Todd their copies of the book, and they also seemed quite pleased about the dedication (although Lawrence is now probably confused about what my name is…). Because Lawrence and Todd were the only ones who met with us, I gave the final two copies to the tour manager to deliver to Tommy and JY. We also got to keep our backstage passes, even though we were technically supposed to return them, but the tour manager said he trusted us. Since it was my first-ever backstage pass, and something I’ve desired for years, I’m thrilled about the whole thing.

Unsurprisingly, I was totally Lawrence’s bitch during the show that night. (Ken: “You’re totally Lawrence’s bitch tonight!” Me: “So are you, honey!”) It was a gooood concert. ;-) Along with the new songs from previous nights, Lawrence did part of his solo hit “Strange Animal,” which was a real treat. At the end, when he took all his polaroids to give out, he held my hand and took a picture of the wrist cuff, my arm, and me, and gave me the picture. I think I’m going to have to make a copy to give back to him.

The next day, we peeled ourselves out of bed and hopped in the car for that 7-hour drive to my parents’ house in upstate NY. I’m still processing that Styxfest is over. What do I occupy my brain with during non-writing time now?! And, as usual, I’m starting to feel the first niggles of PCD (Post-Concert Depression), which is always worse when I don’t have tickets to my next show yet. (They’re touring with Def Leppard this summer, which means that tickets have been dear, and I’ve found no reasonable seats at any venue I wanted to go to.) Plus, on Wednesday I get on a plane back to CA, and Ken gets on a plane to OR. I’ll see him in mid-June when I head up there for a bike get-together (while will include a champagne brunch river cruise and a ride around Crater Lake), but dammit, I want him to come home with me now! [stamps foot petulantly]

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Currently Reading: Three Fates, Nora Roberts
Lately Listened To: Styx, Gowan, Melissa Etheridge, Damn Yankees, the Buffy musical, Taylor Mills…it was along car trip…
Recently Watched: Styx, Styx, Styx

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

On the road again...

So, I’m on a plane to Toronto. How often do my posts start with me being on a plane, or in an airport? And why do I seem to get more work done on planes and in airports than at home sometimes? I have to mention, I totally heart Canada Air. They have electrical outlets at all their seats on the plane. Anyway. Styxfest is finally upon us, and soon it will be over and I’ll have something resembling a life again. Hallelujah, praise the gods.

Oh, the event itself will be fine, if not even fun, but I’m going to be very, very happy when it’s behind us. Afterwards, we’re headed to NY to visit my parents for a couple of days, and I’m also getting interviewed by the local newspaper. I e-mailed a friend of mine who’s a reporter (I used to write for the paper as well, æons ago, but he’s the only one I’ve kept in touch with), and he told the editor (whom I remember) that I’m a bigshot author now. Hah! But it’ll be fun. Between that and pimping A Little Night Music at Styxfest (I have copies for the band, and one to put in the auction, and ran an ad in the yearbook), I’m starting to wonder if I can write this whole trip off on taxes…

Of course, the best part of all this is that I get to snuggle with my beloved for a week. He had to fly to Boston for work, but he should already be in Toronto as I type this.

What I said a while back was that I’d commit to one major volunteer project a year. There might be little things here and there, like being Quartermaster for the Shire, or making award cords, or speaking at a writer’s meeting, but only one big project/commitment. This year, obviously, it’s been Styxfest (and given that Tani, Sheri, and I first met about it on April 1, 2006, it’s been a year plus). I thought perhaps next year (again, meaning my year’s start somewhere midstream) I’d run Black Oak Lodge, our Shire’s weekend event, but I volunteered only if nobody else wanted to do it, and I hear there are at least two sets of people interested.

My new plan is that this year will be the Year of House and Craft Stuff. Morgana and I went to the fabric district recently and I got gorgeous acorn-and-oak-leaf Morris-esque fabric for living room and dining room curtains. I also ordered a sari, of all things, for bathroom curtains. Many more rooms need proper curtains, but I haven’t found the right fabric yet. Then there’s scraping 40-year-old ugly rubber things out of the original clawfoot bathtub, and maybe some paint removal, and… I’ve always got one weaving project or another going. Then there are sewing projects (besides the above-mentioned curtains). I’m making a whole new outfit for Pirate Tournament this year, and some of those pieces will also work with a new faerie outfit. I finally found the sleeves for a cotehardie I’ve already beaded, and I’m back to work beading those. Hell, we still need to get the sewing room in order! (Once Ken’s home for a stretch, he and I and Morgana will be going through every single tub of fabric and culling ruthlessly.) And I’m also planning a project for Ken’s birthday, which I shan't mention here in case he reads this (but if anyone else wants to know what it is, e-mail me for details).

All that should keep me busy for a while, don’t you think?

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Now, a brief catch-up on why I’ve been so lax about updating here.

I blame it on April. April…happened.

First there was my birthday, which was quite pleasant. In defiance of last year, I went to the gym and worked with my trainer. A few friends and I went out to dinner, and then everyone came over for cake (chocolate ganache tort) and champagne and presents.

I did write this in my journal then: I swear, the best part of my birthday is getting the automated birthday message from the Styx Lounge “signed” by the band. I get a goofy smile on my face every damn year. Even if it does arrive at 11:10 p.m. the night before my birthday. :-)

The following week was three Shaw-Blades shows, followed the next day by the Moscow Cats Theatre, followed the next two-and-a-half days by our house being fumigated. Ken was home for the shows and fumigation prep, and then I stayed at Morgana and Brian’s while the actual tent was on. (Grimoire and Eostre handled the whole transition marvelously well, BTW.)

The upshoot of all of that, though, was that I ended up behind on absolutely everything. Writing, work, e-mail, life… I felt like Sisyphus, and correspondence was my rock. It’s only in the last week or so that I’ve felt as though I can breathe again, and that’s with all the final work on Styxfest on my plate. Go figure. I’m hoping this trip won’t put me so far behind the eight ball again, and I rather expect it won’t. I’ll write on the trip, and I’m down to my final work project which, will it’s a messy one, at least has a pleasant author attached to it who’s responsive and conscientious. I’ll have a couple weeks until I head up to Oregon for a bike trip, and then I don’t leave again until mid-July for RWA National Convention.

But I’m getting ahead of myself. In late April, I went to the EFBC’s Twilight Tour with Kelly, Richard, and Tomi. I’ve been trying to go on that tour for several years now, but every time, something else was already scheduled. The benefit of the tour is that you get to go into areas not normally open to the public. What I learned: The EFBC has a lot of amur leopards. They also had baby fishing cats! (And I’m sorry this journal doesn’t have sound because you’re really missing out on the high-pitched glass-shattering squeal by the end of that last sentence.)

Ken came home in early May, and we had a few days at home before we headed up to Cambria on the bike for a conjugal weekend (and motorcycle group outing). On the way up, I brainstormed a few stories, and we stopped at a Japanese restaurant in Santa Maria (mmm, sushi). We stayed at the Bluebird Inn, which my brain kept stubbornly referring to as the Bluebird Inn of Happiness. The main part of the hotel is an 1880s house, although the actual hotel rooms are newer and not terribly interesting. They have fabulous gardens there, though.

Of course, all of Cambria is gorgeous. I’d forgotten how different the central coast is from our area; how much more lush and green and cool. We spent Saturday strolling through the charming sunny town, wandering through gift shops and garden shops and antique shops. All I ended up buying was an assortment of flavored green teas, though. We went for a ride through the hills, and I saw a turkey in a field, a turkey vulture in a field, a crane in a field, and lots of turkey vultures in the sky). We had Mexican with the group that night, and on Sunday took a longer ride home, actually heading north up the coast before cutting into the hills. We stopped to see the elephant seals, who congregate en masse on a particular beach every spring. It really is an amazing sight. The parking lot was filled with cheeky squirrels who’d gather ‘round you and eat out of your hand. Or stomp away in a huff when they realized you didn’t have any food for them.

We stopped in Atascadero for lunch (garlic chicken pizza with a white sauce) and then went to the Charles Paddock Zoo. It’s small, but utterly charming. We stumbled upon it years ago when we were on another trip, and it was so lovely. I took a couple pictures in the aviary, but then completely forgot I even had a camera, I was so enthralled with the animals.

Loreena McKennitt finally toured again, and being on her mailing list, I was able to snap up four decent tickets when they went on sale (knowing that Morgana and Brian would want to go, too). Because Ken couldn’t make it home, I invited our friend Julie after finding out that she and her husband considered one of Loreena’s songs “their” song. Her husband died last year, so it was really no question that she had to come with us.

Julie has MS and uses a wheelchair, and going into the theatre she was taken down in a couple of small elevators (kind of like locks, actually). After the show, a security lady came over to say that one of the elevators had broken, so we’d have to go out through the backstage entrance on the other side of the theatre. Okay, no problem. They brought us out into a courtyard, and Brian went off to get the car (which was now far away from where we were).

(I’m going to pause here to say, I heart Air Canada even more, because their hot tea is actually good. This is a very civilized airline.)

Morgana, Julie, and I looked around, and noticed a few things. The bar. The buffet. The nicely dressed people. The door over there to the backstage.

And we realized we were at the backstage party.

Someone offered us water, which we accepted. Then our security lady came over. “You know you’re at the backstage party, right? Have a drink, have some food. The sandwiches are really good.” We said we were just trying to be inconspicuous… “Nah!” she said, flinging out her arms. “Mingle!”

We didn’t mingle, although we did see two of Loreena’s musicians. Then Brian showed up, and someone offered to lead us out to the exit, and we realized that we were driving through the back lot of Universal Studios and we hyperventilated all over again.

I can’t even describe the concert. “Breathtaking” might come close. “Stunning” sort of touches on it. To be honest, I’m getting teared up just remembering it. There really are no words to describe it…which perhaps is how the very best music is.

It’s going to be years before Loreena tours again, and I’m already pining for it.

This past weekend was our Shire’s annual Anniversary Tournament, and I was smart and didn’t volunteer to do a damn thing (because of Styxfest), although I am co-Quartermaster, so I had to get things checked in and out of the shed in our backyard. I spent time with so many people I haven’t seen in ages, and learned Viking whipcord braiding, which I’m utterly addicted to now. The next day was a tea at Albra’s and a loose Herbal Guild meeting, but some of us who are also in the Textile Guild sat in a corner of the garden and discussed cross-pollination with the Woodworkers Guild to make the proper weights for Viking whipcord braiding so we can do it at Pirate Tourney in July.

And that brings us up to now, and you can see why I got so behind and crazy and my writing suffered for it.

June, boy howdy, is going to be writing month. And I promise to never say “boy howdy” in this journal again.

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In honor of all my travels, I give you the picture above: the picture from my very first passport, which my mom gave me when I was home. Damn I was cute! (I was 6, BTW. There are two visa stamps, for Iran and Greece.)

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Currently Reading: Three Fates, Nora Roberts
Lately Listened To: Celtic Woman
Recently Watched: Blood Ties, Painkiller Jane

Monday, May 21, 2007

Damn you, faint praise!

Novel rejection: “You’re a talented writer, and this story really had some compelling elements. Unfortunately, though, it just did not catch fire for me in the way I had hoped.”

Sunday, May 20, 2007

Acts of kindness

My faith in humanity has been restored with one amazing act of kindness.

I came out of Albra’s this afternoon, where a group of us had been enjoying tea and sandwiches and melted chocolate and things to dip into the chocolate and so forth, to discover that someone had dinged my car. Not a horrible ding, but white paint/scratches and a small dent. My new car. The one that I haven’t even been able to register yet (long story. Not going into it. I do finally have all the paperwork and bits I need, but I’m doing it after I get home from Canada and NY.).

I wasn’t exceedingly upset; I figured there was nothing I could do. I assumed that the person had just taken off.

I was wrong. There was a note beneath my windshield wiper; a phone number, “please contact me,” and “SORRY.” I was stunned.

When I talked to him, the poor guy was so apologetic. Another car had been turning around in the cul-de-sac and he’d backed up to get out of its way, and he said he’d felt so horrible, especially when he saw the car was new. I told him I was so touched by his honesty, that most people would’ve just left. I almost felt a little bad taking his insurance info, and even apologized that his rates would go up.

Really, he could’ve left and I never would’ve have known who did it. But he was honest and kind and decent and honorable, and while it’s a little sad that I expected the opposite, I’m overwhelmed knowing that people like that still exist in this world.

(I do know that people like that exist—I’m blessed with amazing friends. I think the fact that this was a stranger is what truly touches me.)

Friday, May 04, 2007

Win books! Wooh!


Over at Lust Bites, we're having a May Madness competition, where you can win books! All you need to do is click on that link right there, and leave a comment on the Lust Bites blog. That's all. And it's really, really nifty if you say where you came from, because it makes me feel all popular and loved.

The books in this drawing include Teresa's and my very own Cat Scratch Fever, as well as anthologies I (or we) have stories in, such as C is for Coed and Sex With Strangers.

Go forth, my pets, and make me proud!

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Beyond the Comfort Zones

Check out "Beyond the Comfort Zones: Writing Across Boundaries," the latest Lust Bites column, written by Teresa and myself!

Sunday, April 29, 2007

April stats

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Saturday, April 21, 2007

Photos!

Photos from my March trip to Oregon, Book-in-a-Week, etc., can be found here.

Very busy, behind on everything, promise to post more soon. For now, enjoy!

Sunday, April 01, 2007

Turn of the page

Words Written: OOTFP edits
Writing Stats: Rejection from Cemetery Dance for “Queen of Hearts, Hand of Fate”
Exercise: day off, although I cleaned litter boxes and took out trash and recycling—does that count?

Egads, April already! March just flew by so fast. But it was good things—coming off the rush of the concerts, to dive into the rush of the BIAW workshop… It’s just been heads-down working since then—I’ve clean out my e-mail lists folder except for one, and I’ve got a few more e-mails to go in the normal In Box. Work is mostly caught up (and will be ending sometime soon, or at least slowing down towards ending…I’ll know more by the end of the week). And while my intense workouts with the trainer still hurt, I’m not hurting quite as bad afterwards!

Yesterday I went to my first SCA event in longer than I care to ponder. Except for the wind that kicked up the dust and made my eyes feeling like someone was scratching them with sandpaper, I had a truly lovely time. I set up another kumihimo cord (for Kingdom awards—we try to give all our awards on handmade cords) and wove and chatted with all my wonderful friends. A much-appreciated day off.

So, I just signed up for four novel workshops over the next year. Dean’s starting ‘em up again, and I’m a sucker for external deadlines, so…! That’s on top of the one in November in San Diego. So, two novels between now and the beginning of November (one due by 10/1, not sure when the other is due). I’m hoping we can organize another BIAW in late October to overlap with that quarter’s novel workshop. Anyway, two novels? Piece o’cake. I may have to table the heavy editing on yet another novel (which I’d mentally scheduled in after I finish WSWL), but it’s all about the flexibility, baybee!

Good stuff, this life thing.

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Currently Reading: Poison Study, Maria V. Snyder
Lately Listened To: Influence, Shaw/Blades
Recently Watched: Northern Exposure

Friday, March 30, 2007

Done!

The draft of Out of the Frying Pan is done! The proposal is enveloped and will be mailed today, and Teresa's also going to pitch the book at the New England RWA conference this weekend!

But, no rest for the weary... We still need to do a clean-up pass through the rest of the manuscript (shouldn't be a lot of work, but it's fiddly back-and-forth stuff), and I also have a short story that must be written and submitted today. I've also got a couple of anthology deadlines in the next month.

Then it's back to With Soft Whispers Laden, which I mostly set aside in the crunch to get OOTFP done, because it was hurting my brain too much to switch between erotic romantic comedy and menacing gothic-esque paranormal romance.

So I win my Beautiful Trophy for this quarter, and plan to get WSWL done by the end of June for another Beautiful Trophy!

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Invitation


We're keeping things pretty low-key this year, but if anyone would like to join me on my birthday for dinner, that would be most lovely!

TGI Friday's, Oxnard
Friday, April 6
7 p.m.

If you're able to join us, please RSVP by Thu, Apr 5, so I can make a reservation. (If you can't make it, no need to RSVP your regrets. Feel free to raise a glass in toast, though, wherever you may be!)

Everyone is welcome to come by Brenneis Oaks afterwards for tea, coffee, alcohol, and maybe even cake....

Cheers,
Dayle/Rhieinwen

P.S. Gifts are absolutely not necessary. But, if you so wish to peek at my heart's desires, I maintain a wishlist at Wish Central ;-)

Monday, March 26, 2007

Ch-ch-ch-changes

Words Written: OOTFP ~1300
Writing Stats: Mostly a sale… “A Few Things…” may not be fitting into G is for Games, but the editor thinks it could be great in K is for Kinky. She promises it will get into one of the alphabet books, at any rate!
Exercise: 1 hr w/personal trainer

Busy, busy. Ken’s home for a couple days, mainly to pick up his new motorcycle. He arrived this morning (actually passing me at an intersection while I was on my way home from the chiropractor) and went out to a movie (Music & Lyrics, perhaps the funniest thing I’ve seen in years. Not an award-winning movie, but if you like early-80s pop…oh my gods.) and lunch with Morgana and I.

I then had about an hour to make some phone calls and answer some e-mail before I dashed off to the gym. See, last week I got an early birthday present for myself: I hired a personal trainer for two months. I had a crap birthday last year. I spent a good chunk of it in the emergency room. This is not going to happen to me this year, nor ever again, if I have anything to do with it. When the head trainer asked me what my goal was, I said “To not be in constant pain anymore.” To his credit, he blinked only once or twice before recommending three trainers who have rehab experience.

I’m not going to talk about it much more, though. Personally, I don’t find people’s exercise logs interesting reading, including my own. (This is absolutely not meant as a commentary about what anybody chooses to put in their personal journal/blog. I love hearing about people’s successes, I love hearing about new workout things they’ve tried, but a daily listing of statistics doesn’t float my personal boat.) I’ll just keep mentioning in my stats above what I’ve done recently, because I do look back over the journal from time to time.

Plus, I’m not interested in obsessing about weight on a daily basis. That way lies madness. Weight fluctuates during the day, during the week, during the month for reasons that may have nothing to do with how much one ate or how often one worked out. I’m more interested in toning (especially my core—again, so my back stops hurting), and I’m more interested in the bigger picture. Today Katrina, my trainer, gave me a strength test, checked my body fat, took my measurements, and took “before” pictures. I want to see how all that has changed two months from now. Not next week.

Anyway. So tomorrow, Ken picks up his new bike, makes some modifications, and then we go to the custom seat guy to get our butts measured for custom seats. I also have another trainer appt and a massage scheduled. Wednesday Ken leaves, but I have a chiro appt and an eye appt (and with the dilation, I’ll be unable to work for a bit afterwards). Thursday I have a work conference call and another trainer appt and Lick’n’Stick/Healing Circle, and Friday…gods, I don’t even remember now. Chiro. Something else? Then Saturday, my first SCA event in months, which means I have to find all my stuff for that.

Meanwhile—and most importantly—Teresa and I are on the last chapter of OOTFP! She’s done a pass through the first few chapters to clean up some items we noted, and I’ll do a pass, and then we’ll tweak the synopsis (now that the book’s done) and get it sent out. I’ll get my damn Beautiful Trophy this quarter, by gods! And hey, maybe we’ll sell this book to our dream editor. :-)

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Currently Reading: Savannah Blues, Mary Kay Andrews
Lately Listened To: Au Quebec, Home Field, Gowan
Recently Watched: Northern Exposure